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June 09, 2019 17:33:21 +0000 (UTC)

shaybie
hi guys, um.. for my 2nd post i decided to share my story in the lgbt community to celebrate pride...

hi guys, um.. for my 2nd post i decided to share my story in the lgbt community to celebrate pride month.

i've been lgbt since i could remember, i remember being like 12 and like 'why is that girl so cute to me?' while i was staring at boys too. i was so confused... i had no idea you could like boys and girls yet (my mom is bisexual, but she never really told me about it.) so, i accepted it. i thought i was different and weird but... it felt normal? i felt like i enjoyed being different in the sense of liking both genders.

i took to google at 13, and i was reading about how bisexuality isn't real and bull like that. when i finally found out what it meant, it felt like a huge weight was lifted off my shoulders. i finally understood, but i was still too scared to tell anybody.

i ended up telling my online best friend at the time whom i still talk to, and she accepted me. she was so proud of me and i was so happy i nearly cried. i had gotten past on obstacle, but there was another huge one in my way. my grandma, and my mom. i knew it was unavoidable, i had to tell them before i could be happy with myself.

my grandmother died in 2016, i was 14 and just started my freshman year. i knew i had to tell my mom, so while we were off visiting her friends house, i told her in the car.

"Mom, I think I am bisexual."

and all i can remember was some laughter and an accepting tone of voice.

"i knew you were, but i am so glad you told me."

those words still echo in my mind and it makes me so happy. i just wish i had taken the chance to tell my grandmother, i know she would've accepted but i know she's watching and reading this while i write it and i know she's proud of me. thanks for reading, y'all.

(enjoy this picture of yukilisa i made)

June 12, 2019 15:50:51 +0000 (UTC)

Megggles

BANDORI 30 DAY CHALLENGE: BIRTHDAY COUNT DOWN EDITION❗❗❗

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DAY 25: Favorite Popular Ship

MISAKANNON IS MY ULTIMATE OTP

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LOOK HOW PRECIOUS THEY ARE

June 10, 2019 15:25:12 +0000 (UTC)

Tsubame

So, Pride Month, huh? I’m ace, idk what my romantic orientation is—I’ve certainly had crushes on guys but when it comes to actually engaging in romantic acts I just. *insert I would prefer not to meme* Whether it’s because I’m something like akoiromantic or because of how much difficulty I have opening up to people I have no clue, but it gets too complicated so I’m just ace and that’s it. Part of me wishes being touched with any intention other than friendship didn’t make me freeze up/cringe and that I were less awkward with touch in general, but then again the fact that I’m like this was a huge part of what drew me to Arisa “D-Don’t hug me!” Ichigaya so strongly (even though I hc her as a massive disaster lesbian as most people do), so I guess it’s all good, right?

Since I don’t usually talk about this stuff online I’ve been spared from any ace discourse but I’m aware that if I were to call myself a heteroromantic ace I might be accused of being ‘pretty much straight,’ which is not true but honestly whatever, the bottom line is that love comes in many different forms, as do people, and all of them are valid as heck

And that means platonic love is important too! Sure, Pride Month is about romantic love a lot of the time and that’s great but as a romantically confused ace I crave close relationships as much as the next person—and although I am currently dating someone who knows what I’m like, there’s a heckton of compromising involved and I can’t help feeling guilty when I have to say no to things that make me uncomfortable. (Now that I’m here editing this post because as per usual I was self-conscious and trying not to get too personal before, I might as well add that my ex looked me in the eye one day and told me aces didn’t exist, it was just a ‘hormonal imbalance,’ which . . . wasn’t nice to hear.) So the idea of having a queerplatonic partner, a soulmate who loves me in a purely non-romantic way, is kinda the dream, y’know?

Yet romance is always hyped up so much that I’m a hypocrite and sometimes try to do dumb stuff like making myself ship something even if I’m not completely feeling it lmao. Take KanoChisa, for instance. They’re so perfect for each other imo and for the longest time I was torn on whether they were an OTP or a brotp. I really liked the idea of them being something in between, still technically a brotp but I feel the term is considered inherently less important than its romantic counterpart, so like. A brotp, but Intense. I could see them doing the queerplatonic thing but until recently I still tried to ship them because uh. EXCUSE THE ULTERIOR MOTIVE but if I ever wrote a fic for them, I wanted to put it in the tag ok. If I tagged it as Chisato & Kanon it would, again, seem inferior to Chisato/Kanon, like “oh I’m just writing about them as friends.” But I’ve come to a decision! KanoChisa are platonic soulmates to me and that’s how they’ll stay because it feels right and warms my ace heart. They’d still be amazing gfs though

Idk how much of that was related to anything but Happy Pride Month everyone!

June 10, 2019 11:07:46 +0000 (UTC)

Missa-chan
I just saw that, and now...
Pride month... Roselia... Lisa...
Please let the ship be real 😭

I just saw that, and now... Pride month... Roselia... Lisa... Please let the ship be real 😭

June 10, 2019 03:55:54 +0000 (UTC)

rensuke

hello!! its a me, qyn and im back with a new post tht has only a bit to do with bandori but since its pride month so

im an omniromantic ace ,, and thats just who i am! i guess u could say its sort of like panromantic-ness but the difference is that panromantic holds no regards to gender itself when showing attraction but omniromantic is being actively attracted to and recognizing all genders, which may play a role in one's preferences. i, for one, think girl hot but everyone else is super valid too!!!

i think i really started accepting that as part of me when i got into bandori. before, i holed up in danganronpa and i showed some heavy affection towards some girls like mioda ibuki and iruma miu. but getting into bandori was just,, throwing 25 girls at me and not only was that the start of my idol hell adventure, but my Acceptance™️ and i appreciate this community for doing something like this!

since this is pretty much my first pride month accepting myself as part of lgbtq+, i wanted to write some drabbles every day of june in honor of bandori girls!! its on ao3 and it contains a heck lot of my ships and ships that i think are, okay! i have a set list of prompts too so yall can check them out if you want~ here you go!!

anyway shoutout to all lgbtq+ members and allies!! you all rock and im proud to stand along side you!!! shoutout to banpa staff for doing this!! shoutout to all bandori girls bc you are mvps too!!

June 10, 2019 21:33:01 +0000 (UTC)

KiyariTakarin

So because it's pride month I decided to a do a small blog about it , now I am cis not gay or anything else, pretty basic stuff but i live in a country when LGBT talk is taboo and unacceptable in general, my parents never sit down and told me anything about it, it's all come from my curiousity as I search the internet that's it , at first I though you either can be hetero , bi or gay until I discovered other sexualities and my mind was blown , well to be honest there is ton of them I have hard time undrestand how each of them work but I personnaly don't mind who you are as long as you are a nice and a great person and since my parents never told me why it's not alright in my religion and only finish the subject with "because god told us it's the case" I mean I get the same marriage thingy and pregnancy thingy but why it is not good to love someone from the same sex as you ? Why is it wrong to be different? I don't get it, I am a grown up and I still don't get it and that's why I wholeheartedly support anything LGBT , I might not understand what you are but I support you 100% because you are a human being like me and deserve love and I love you all with all your complicated sexuality because it doesn't matter at the end of the day , you are good as you are so be yourself and never listen to critics

June 09, 2019 18:08:46 +0000 (UTC)

Alisa_Sato
Ciao a tutti, here is Alisa talking to you  ex Minami_Minami . How are you? I hope for good. So......

Ciao a tutti, here is Alisa talking to you (ex Minami_Minami). How are you? I hope for good. So... what can I tell you about me? I'm a girl who can be called a lover of girls, so I'm homosexual, that's right! Since adolescence, I have experienced these feelings towards my own sex, so I could say that I have always been this way, huehehe. To express these feelings with you, also with regards to 2D girls, I plan to prepare a small (not so much) list of the various and endless girls that are in my TOP 3, obviously they are taken by a determined anime / manga / game ( Touch me, senpai/kohai, for more info! ). I hope you will like it as an idea, and I will start tomorrow with the Bandori series. I wish you a happy month of pride. Saluti!

June 10, 2019 15:53:20 +0000 (UTC)

Alisa_Sato

LET'S TALK ABOUT WAIFU (DAY 1: BanG Dream!)

Ciao a tutti! Let's start this fantastic day, full of pride , with the most recent girls who stole my heart: Yukina, Kaoru and Tomoe. On them I don't know what to say, I have already said what I thought through the Challenge made a few months ago, so I would say to talk about my personal point of view in the "romantic" field.

  • Last position

Image Let's start with the last of the TOP 3, Tomoe: I really like her in her rock and wild style, I love it when you pair her with Himari, I can see those two very good together. Tomoe also has a flaming flowing hair that I really consider the best and then her turquoise eyes are fantastic. Speaking of her voice, I don't have much to comment on, I've already said how much I love her voice actress, Yoko Hikasa, since the days when she gave the voice to Mio Akiyama, I miss a lot to hear her voice sung, I really think I'll make a jump to see me again K-ON!.

  • Second position

Image Going to the second position we find Kaoru, the prince that everyone would like, including myself. Her regal demeanor makes those who want to fall in love with her, apart from Chisato who holds her collar tight, but forgive her, how can you say no to that super sexy Russian voice? As is Kaoru's voice: warm and enveloping at the right point, I could thank Azusa Tadokoro for giving her the voice, and not only to her, but also to Shizuka Mogami in Idolm@ster: Million Live so it's nice to hear it more than once, I really like her voice. As a physical aspect, I would say that it's in my favorite standard of a virile woman: thinned eyes and penetrating gaze, even the hair is worn in the right way, even if I go crazy for low tails rather than high ones. It will be that they have a certain charm.

  • First position

Image And finally, the best of my favorites, we obviously have Yukina-sama. Beautiful, gritty and powerful. Definitely a character who immediately took my breath away: her magnetic eyes, that almost regal bearing, that so velvety voice when she speaks that makes my limbs melt or so intense when she sings that she instead charges me with adrenaline. I like being able to think that under her perennial armor, like Sayo, she can have a big heart that can give great emotions. Needless to say, I see Lisa at Yukina's life, childhood friendship always has that plus point as any good dating sim has taught us. Regarding her voice actress Aina Aiba I won't say much for today, tomorrow I'll talk about it better as I will mention it again.


So with this question and doubt, for today I greet you and wish you a good continuation. Saluti!

June 09, 2019 23:27:19 +0000 (UTC)

NyxAura

Happy Pride Month y'all! I'm proud that I'm apart of this community as a bisexual Be proud of who you are!

June 09, 2019 23:02:27 +0000 (UTC)

mxcadayy

happy pride month! i may not be a part of lgbtq+ (idk what sexuality i am rn) but hopefully doesn’t mean i cant wish all lgbtq+ people a happy pride month.

June 10, 2019 04:05:33 +0000 (UTC)

nijiusagi

oh, dang! we can talk about our experiences! right. i forgot! well, to start, i'll say i'm bi! the path to finding (and finally feeling comfortable with) my sexual orientation was neither short nor trouble-less!

i was in high school when the state i live in voted against gay marriage for the first time!! i still carry around my rainbow "legalize" lanyard. i remember asking my family how they would feel if i said i'd wanted to marry a girl (or someone who identifies as one in this particular day and age, to be more correct~!). they'd just kept telling me they wanted me to be happy, but... y'know it helps to be legal about it. right? -sighs-

that was 11 years ago now. every time i hope the country has made progress, i hear on the news that it hasn't. at the very least, i sincerely hope you guys much younger than me will at least be able to become much more open-minded adults; we're very quickly replacing our grandparents and parents.

i'd also like to remind you to keep everyone in mind this month; as a bisexual person, i cannot tell you how many years this month has come and gone where i would go out to celebrate with gay friends only to be told i can't be around because i'm bi. DO NOT FUCKING BE LIKE THAT. it is not funny and hurts a lot more than one could imagine. i apologize for my language, but i'm seriously ready to fight for anyone who has to go through that sort of thing i did when i was young. we're trying to change people's minds for the better.

Be good to one another, regardless of orientation.

i hope your pride goes well! and i hope your solo yolos are of the highest tier of quality!